I just knew I would have to make some kind of apology for my post about Japan, so Mr. Anonymous, this one's for you.
I'm truly sorry that you have friends in Japan and I cannot begin to imagine how much pain that can cause. My point was NEVER to hurt anyone's feelings, but I do want to correct some things here.
"But I dont think putting up a post saying so is necessary. If people dont know about it or don't know how to donate, it is likely that even if I did post and make them aware that they wouldn't do anything anyway."
Everyone should know about it, there is absolutely no excuse for that. Would you excuse someone who didn't know that two planes had crashed into the Twin Towers a week after it happened? I don't think so. And I completely disagree: if you post about it, you spread the word and you make more people aware, so it is of course more likely that those people would donate or help.
"I would much prefer to send off notes of support to my friends in Japan. And I think thats more beneficial to let them know that I care about them, rather than put it on a blog post they won't
read. Luckily - they will be back soon."
It's great that you send them notes of support, but do you think it's bad that we, people who don't have friends or family in Japan, try to help spread the word? especially when blogging is such a huge part of the media today? Sure, they might not read it, but you can be sure that we're making a difference, and trust me, they won't look at us in the future and say "pshh I hate those bloggers". No. They would most likely be appreciative of us. Now, do you think they're going to look at bloggers who didn't even say a word of support about this and say "WOW they really did support us!" I don't think so.
"But to be made to feel guilty by reading posts like this (there have been a few) is horrible. Also making people feel like they should blog about it will lead to an influx of half hearted posts - simply because it is the right thing to do. And yes I have posted other things since that have not been related to Japan. But I am showing my support in other way."
Okay, I think saying that I'm making people feel guilty is completely twisting my words. Again, my point wasn't to make anyone feel guilty, this is my blog after all and I'm all for discussion and debate, but what I don't tolerate is when people twist my words. I just feel like so many 'famous' bloggers have the power to make a difference and yet they choose to post about donuts or how cute their dog is, which is completely fine, I'm not saying that the world should stop because of what's going on in Japan, but if you can help, why don't you? I don't think I'm being the mean one here. And the excuse you're giving about keeping quiet isn't valid for those bloggers who could make the biggest difference. Believe me, I've gotten comments from people who say that it's difficult for them to write about this tragedy because their words would never express what they feel, I get that, I completely get that. But again, that is not an excuse for bloggers who have thousands and thousands of followers. I see so many of my blogging friends post about events and humanitarian organisations, and THAT is what we should all be doing. How do you think that so many institutions are able to make a difference? Well, because people get together, this is a group effort on a universal scale.
That's all. Again, I'm sorry if I hurt anyone's feelings, that was the complete opposite of the point I was trying to make here.
If you want to donate click here for the American Red Cross or here for the "For Japan with Love", where you can participate in a day of silence and where you can also donate.
17 comments:
Girl don't listen to the haters. You know we can't do much from over here, but by posting and talking about it we are at least recognizing the human connection to those hurting...that we care, that we see...if nothing less. You keep loving and they will keep hating, that is just the way the world works sometimes! sad.
I don't think you should have to apologize. Those people were the examples of those who cannot handle opinions or truths. You didn't offend and anyway, you were just concerned by the lack of concern from others, period.
Don't stress and just keep being you. <3
Thank you so much! That means a lot :)
Dear sweet, beautiful, Lula,
I applaud you for standing up for your beliefs, not backing down when negativity is thrown your way, and being the perfect example of what every blogger should strive to be....fun, honest, lovely, kind, funny, and caring, all at the same time. Keep 'ya head up (although I know you are) and always continue to do and say just exactly what you want to...lots of us think you are simply amazing.
I read both blog posts (this and the last) and how people could come up with such petty nonsense I do not understand. It's obvious that you are compassionate and want to spread awareness for this terrible tragedy in Japan.
While we're on the subject, do you know what really irks me about this tragedy? All those silly celebs that are tweeting/saying ugly things about the poor Japanese citizens and making light of the situation....now that's something to get heated about, right?
Hugs,
Ash
p.s. Thank you for you sweet sweet comment. I'll tell hubs and Huds (cute!) you said hello. & then they'll say, "oh yeah, good ol' Lula...we just love her!"
p.s.s. Happy Night to you, friend! xoxoxo
Lula, i already love you and your blog and now love and appreciate people like you that much more! I back you up 100% not because I'm choosing sides, but because this is what I already thought and believe. :)
Dear Ms. Lula Palooza,
I love you.
This is your blog.
There will always be haters.
Everyone is entitled to an opinion.
And everyone has freedom of speech.
Peeps who post anonymously don't get my respizzle, unless they're doing so to protect their kid or something.
Bah. Humbug. For the love. Holy Pete. For cryingoutloud. WHY are people MEAN?
Yours Truly (forever and ever and ever),
Ms. Kimberly Fashion Momma
... and, before someone blasts me, let me correct myself. NOT everyone is lucky enough to be entitled to freedom of speech.
but you are. and I are.
see? I can even say "I are," because I'm free to do it.
Yours Truly and all of the stuff I said before (to infinity and beyond),
someonewhocant'shutup
oh my.. things will turn out fine Lula..
im following you.
Really, after reading all your words, I have totally agree with your opinion. Every single or little effort will make a big difference about everything! This is the ability of human to gathered all of our strength and mind together.
By the way, I love your blog for the design, photos, and words, everything! Very nice blog. :))
dejoiss ♥
http://dejoiss.blogspot.com/
I honestly just wanna say you go girl. Thanks for taking the time to come to my blog to comment back, it really means a lot in a world of people who don't really seem to give a shit. I really liked your post and I think you make a very valid point-people who have power in the media/blogosphere/etc. should be trying to raise awareness. Just simply letting people know what they can do by offering up some places to donate money can make all the difference.
Hey lady, hope you are doing fantastic! I am one of those bloggers guilty of this- I have helped in other ways, but you are right when you say that spreading the word through blogs is a great thing to do. More than that, though, is your point about being educated and knowing what is going on. I think that is a huge problem in our ethnocentric communities. I think that the main point here in all of this is just to reach out- no matter what the arena, whether donations, blogging, Facebook, whatever...Just help, no matter the cause!
Love you Lula! I can't believe you are only 19- that is insane! I would have guessed 27!
I definitely agree with everything you said in your posts. Its important for those who have access to a great number of people to post and share information. Those who feel you were attempting to make anyone feel guilty need to read the post again or just move on.
You are so awesome! :) Definitely praying for Japan.
x
No need 4 apology, just don listen 2 these .... people.....=b
jaime bien la meuf qui est comme " ecoute pas ce "hater"" cest comme ok britney spears. jpense pas qu'il etait vener, juste un peu stupide BUT I GUESS. comme tu dis dans lautre post, tes pas en train de complain juste " reflect". le collage que tas fait pour le Japon est vraiment super beau et je trouve que tas absolument raison de motiver les gens a post sur cet evenement plutot que sur des donuts et sur leurs chiens ( gros LOL ). jespere que ca inspira la vie a participer au donations, moi je peux pas vraiment aider parce que je dois deja faire un don a ma compagnie de gaz, et je peux pas participer a la journee de silence parce que je sais pas comment faire ca...
This is a little late but I wanted to leave a note telling you how much I agreed with your last post about Japan. You were definitely not the only one feeling that way, and I was surprised that some of the blogs I followed didn't even mention Japan and what is going on (and still haven't!) I was so mad about it that I stopped following those blogs. I was so glad to read your post and realize that maybe somebody also felt the same way I did about it.
Thank you Emma!
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